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Marvin
Messing
Aug 13, 1938 — Dec 14, 2025
Ubly
Marvin Messing, a devoted husband, loving father, and lifelong steward of the land, passed away peacefully on Sunday, December 14, 2025, at his winter home in Mesa, Arizona at the age of 87. He was born on August 13, 1938, in Ruth, Michigan to the late Walter and Dorothy (Buhl) Messing.
In 1961, Marvin married the love of his life, Lorene (Heleski). Together they shared a profound bond for 64 years, building a family and a life rooted in faith and community. Marvin was a dedicated member of the Catholic Church throughout his entire lifetime, worshiping at St. Columbkille, Sheridan Corners, MI, alongside Lorene and his family.
Marvin dedicated 65 years to farming, beginning his stewardship of the land in 1962. His work was more than a profession; it was a legacy. The Messing farm has been a cherished part of the family for three generations and continues to flourish today, now operated by his granddaughter Ashley Kennedy and her family.
Beyond the fields, Marvin found great satisfaction in his bountiful garden, ensuring that no one ever left their house in Michigan without taking home fresh vegetables. He loved to play cards, especially when it meant gathering around a table with cherished friends and family. Marvin and Lorene cherished their time in Mesa, where their neighbors became close and cherished friends over the years. Above all, he was dedicated to his family and loved spending time with them.
Marvin is survived by his devoted wife, Lorene, his seven children; Greg (Shelly) Messing, Ubly, MI, Linette (Kirk) Weston, Port Hope, MI, Teresa (Stan) Pace, Raleigh, NC, Denise (Sean) McVey, Bad Axe, MI, Karen McKimmy (fiancé Dale Poellet) Frankenmuth, MI, Michael (Melinda) Messing, Caro, MI and Joel (Andrea) Messing, Pacheco, CA; 14 grandchildren, Ashley (Eric) Kennedy, Kevin (Sarah) Messing, Lauren (Brian ) Arendt, Quinnlin Daily, Clay (Victoria) Daily, Anna Pace, Erin Pace, Alison (Austin) Rothe, Matthew McVey, Benjamin McVey, Madison McKimmy, Crystal Messing, Andrea Messing and Brandon Messing and seven great-grandchildren Calli and Adeline Kennedy, Neely, Myra and Lena Messing, and Mara and Ada Rothe, all of whom brought immense joy to his life.
He is also survived by his siblings; Norma (Virgil ) Peruski, Carol (the late Gene Stewart) and David Messing.
He was preceded in death by his sister Delores and her husband Russell Bouchard, and his brother Lloyd and his wife Ann Messing.
A Mass of Christian burial for Marvin Messing, will be held on Saturday, May 16, 2026 at St. Columbkille, Sheridan Corners, Catholic Church at 11:00 am with Fr. Kumar officiating.
Visitation will take place on Friday, May 15, 2026 at MacAlpine Funeral Home from 3-8 pm, with a Rosary taking place at 7:00 pm, and also on Saturday at the church from 10:00 until the time of service.
In lieu of flowers, memorials may be offered to the St. Columbkille cemetery fund or St. Jude Children's Research Hospital.
Condolences may be shared with the family at www.macalpinefuneralhome.com
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